Rude People
I feel the need for a rant as I am very hacked off!
Today, I went to a university open day to help me make a choice in what degree I want to study next year. I was thinking of Criminal Justice or Addictive Behavior which is basically substance use.
I went for a chat with the lecturer from Criminal Justice and I have to say, I have never met anyone so damn rude! The impression that she was giving was the my questions were not important and she didn't really want to speak to me. She looked at me as if I was stupid when I asked a question and yawning and sighing before she answered! Hey I thought these people where supposed to 'sell' their courses to potential applicants to ensure that they still have a job next year! Let's just say I changed my mind about the course as I wonder what her abilities as an actual lecturer are!
On a better note, the lecturer from Addictive Behavior was lovely and spent half an hour chatting to me. She made me feel as though my questions and views are important and gave me so much information about the course and really convinced me it will be a great degree to do.
As it turns out, there are no exams on it so with everything being based on coursework, it won't be too different from college. Most of the people that do that degree are aged between 30 and 50 (which will be great for me as I will be nearly 24 when I go) and the majority are ex-addicts and ex-offenders so they have alot to contribute. There is also two hours a week study skills for people who may find essays difficult etc. The course is two days a week with a day home study.
it just goes to show how different attitudes affect peoples minds. After leaving the Criminal Justice table I thought 'I certainly don't want to be taught by that woman who has that sort of attitude on an open day' and after leaving the Addictive Behavior table I thought 'what a lovely women, I would really like her to teach me and be in her class.'
It doesn't take much to be polite and friendly to anyone.

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i have seen similar things in my life and all I can say is the universe is showing you this for a reason – maybe you will be in a position of authority one day. Maybe you are being shown what not to be like. Everything happens a reason.
I cannot stand people like that! I'm sorry that was such an icky experience, but it sounds like you are going to be happy with the other course anyway.
NP: I'm a supervisor in work and I have done management/supervisory roles for a few years. I treat people how I wish to be treated. She done me a favour as the next lady being so nice made me make up my mind.
Jackie: I'm looking forward to it already and I won't be starting till September next year. I'm just waiting on a reference from my tutor then my application can go in. The lady from Addictive Behaviour told me to ring her as soon as I put the application in as it will be her reading it x PS How is your work going x
I am so sorry for your experience; I am very surprised. That is what I am getting my Master's in; Addiction Counseling. I had experience with friends and family, and am doing very well.
I have also had numerous courses in Criminal Justice when I was getting my BA; I love it.
Good luck to you.